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Leading with Mindfulness

Leading with Mindfulness

Leading with Mindfulness: How Breathwork and Sound Healing Elevate Leadership

In today’s fast-paced corporate landscape, the demands on senior executives and C-suite teams are relentless. Leadership isn’t just about strategy or decision-making-it’s about showing up with clarity, resilience, and empathy. While leadership development practices are essential, pairing them with mindfulness tools like breathwork and sound healing can transform the way leaders perform and thrive.

The Pressure of Leadership in the Modern World

The higher you climb the corporate ladder, the heavier the responsibilities. Deadlines, investor expectations, and team management can drain even the most capable leaders. And here’s the thing-burnout doesn’t discriminate. No matter how polished the leadership development program or how strong the skillset, if a leader isn’t also managing their inner world, they’ll eventually hit a wall.

Mindfulness practices like breathwork and sound healing serve as the perfect complement to traditional leadership tools. These aren’t just wellness trends-they’re powerful techniques that help leaders cultivate the mental clarity, emotional resilience, and creativity necessary to succeed.

Breathwork: A CEO's Secret Weapon for Clarity

Breathwork is more than taking a deep breath when you’re stressed-it’s a practice that reprograms your mind and body for calm and focus. Conscious breathing techniques can:
• Alleviate Stress: Simple techniques like box breathing can help a leader calm down before delivering a high-stakes presentation or navigating a crisis.
• Promote Laser Focus: Breathwork activates the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for decision-making, allowing leaders to think critically even under pressure.
• Boost Energy: For leaders juggling packed schedules, energizing breathwork exercises like breath of fire can act as a natural pick-me-up.

One executive I worked with shared how integrating 5 minutes of breathwork into their morning routine drastically changed the way they showed up for work. “It felt like flipping a switch,” they said. “Instead of starting my day already stressed, I began with clarity and intention.”

Sound Healing: Unlocking Creativity and Emotional Resilience

Imagine lying back, closing your eyes, and letting waves of sound from crystal bowls or gongs wash over you. That’s the experience of sound healing-a practice that helps release tension, boost creativity, and nurture emotional intelligence.

For leaders, sound healing offers:
• Stress Relief: The vibrational frequencies of sound instruments promote deep relaxation, helping leaders release the pressures of the day.
• Creative Insights: When the mind relaxes, it often unlocks fresh ideas and solutions. Sound healing encourages this “aha!” moment by quieting mental chatter.
• Emotional Release: Leaders often suppress emotions to maintain composure. Sound healing creates a safe space to process and let go of built-up tension.

One C-suite leader I worked with called sound healing their “unfair advantage.” After attending a session, they approached a lingering challenge with new energy and confidence.

Why Mindfulness is the Leadership Edge

Mindfulness practices like breathwork and sound healing give leaders a competitive advantage by helping them:
• Respond to challenges rather than react impulsively.
• Cultivate empathy and emotional intelligence, strengthening team relationships.
• Lead from a place of clarity, ensuring decisions align with both strategy and vision.

More importantly, mindfulness creates better humans, not just better leaders. When executives take care of their inner world, they inspire their teams to do the same-creating a culture of balance, focus, and innovation.

Practical Ways to Integrate Mindfulness into Leadership

Want to bring mindfulness into your leadership routine? Here are a few ideas:
• Start meetings with a 2-minute breathwork session to center the team.
• Incorporate sound healing or meditation into leadership retreats or development programs.
• Schedule personal mindfulness sessions weekly to recharge and reset.

The Future of Leadership

The best leaders of tomorrow are those who invest in themselves today. By pairing traditional leadership development practices with tools like breathwork and sound healing, today’s executives can unlock their full potential-leading with clarity, confidence, and compassion.

It’s not about adding one more thing to an already full plate. It’s about transforming how you show up. With mindfulness in your toolkit, leadership becomes less about surviving and more about thriving.

By Holly Neighbours
Holly is a Reiki, Breathwork and Sound Healing Practitioner.
Sound Healing and Breathwork sessions can be added on to Leadership Development Coaching Programs through ilume, or can be booked privately through her website www.hollyneighbours.com

An inelegant transition

An inelegant transition

Earlier this year I was in a ‘perfect storm’, and actually I was blissfully unaware of what was to happen to me.

After 23 years, my husband Dave and I sold our beautiful farm on an undiscovered coastline in New Zealand with million-dollar views, a walnut plantation, two houses, five sheds and treasured landscaped gardens. This was all created by the two of us and had been a labour of love and discovery about ourselves, and what was really possible as we started with an empty piece of land that had never been looked after.

This decision to sell was big for us and was not one we would have chosen to make (we always believed we would leave at the end of a great life well lived in a box!).

However, sometimes the universe has other plans. Dave’s diagnosis three years prior of Stage Four Cancer with a limited lifespan turned our world on its axis. Two rounds of radiotherapy, six operations, eight specialists, four hospitals and countless tests, PET scans and CT scans and medical appointments filled our world. This experience taught us a great deal about the NZ health system (both private and public), and we go to know the very special people who choose this profession in whatever guise or specialty they opt for.

And of course, our most important lesson was about the fragility or conversely strength of ourselves.

The decision was taken, and instinctively we knew this was important to do and do well.

A few months prior we had taken a long weekend in Taupo which had become a regular haunt during recovery periods for Dave. On a walk one morning Dave told me he wanted an active life in a place that enabled him to do just that, and we got to wondering aloud if Taupo could do that for both of us.

DEFINED BY OUR ASSUMPTIONS AND BELIEFS

1) Funny how we pigeon-hole ourselves –

• “I’m not a ‘lake person’
• “I have always loved the sound of the sea and the beach”
• I prefer beaches to lakes
• It is always cold at a lake
• It’s a long way from Auckland and our family

We stopped, looked at each other, and began to open our minds to what was possible and to ask ourselves how we could look at the lake with new eyes and appreciation.

2) Being the great decisions makers we are (strong belief after years of hard-won experience good and not so good!!), by that afternoon we were looking at land to buy and before we departed for home, we had a conditional offer accepted on a beautiful piece of land in a gated community in Acacia Bay, Taupo!

So, movement was occurring almost in spite of our current life, and we were off to a new one!

Over the next few months, I was reminded about the elegant art of transition. I had been a student of William Bridges many years prior and had his books in my library – most particularly Transitions which I had recommended to many clients. And still do!

Here are the topics I will cover over the next few weeks as my story unfolds:

• Denial
• Exhaustion
• Fish out of Water
• Holding on……to what?
• Health Alert
• Taking care
• New behaviours emerging
• Taking action
• A new life!